Small Choices, Big Impacts – Technology for Immune System Boosts

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

  – Viktor Frankl

At this moment we’ve been asked to pause our lives and isolate from most of our family, friends, and colleagues. We are powerless to stop the contagion of disease or the conflict of politics but we are free to choose how we respond in this moment. And we can definitely control what sort of changes we want to see in our future selves when this time of turmoil comes to an end, as indeed it will. Though the world may seem too full of threats and too overwhelming to make any change right now, keep in mind that the biggest transformations are often the result of tiny, almost imperceptible steps we take along the way. And as every gardener knows, fallow ground is actually the most fertile because it has had time to rest and regenerate. This Spring may be just the right time to plant and nurture small seeds that will germinate and grow into the healthy changes we want to see in our lives. And the best news is that the same steps that will result in a healthier future self, will also stabilize our mood and calm our nerves leading to more equanimity in the home, as well as giving a vital boost to the immune system. Small choices that help nurture inner calm can also help bring peace to a not so peaceful world.

Be gentle with yourself

During this time of fear and uncertainty we all yearn to feel loved, nurtured, and safe. Yet the voice we often choose when speaking to ourselves — which is, after all, the person we talk to more than anyone else in the world — is neither kind nor helpful, or even truthful!  Pay attention to the voice in your head and choose kind and respectful communication. In a world full of threat and danger it is important to have a sanctuary where you feel safe and calm, especially in your own mind. A small increase in self-awareness and self-compassion will lead to better self-regulation and management of emotions, which in turn will lead to more harmony and peace within. In this time of global stress, inner peace is our greatest gift and most valuable asset. Choose to nurture inner peace. Be gentle with yourself.

Technology:  Immune System Boost or Bust 

That little phone in our pocket (which is a million times more powerful than the computer that landed man on the moon 50 years ago) has the power to fill us with global and local news that can so overwhelm our nervous system we no longer sleep at night or even think straight. When we are so absorbed in feelings of distress that it robs us of energy and the ability to think clearly, it destroys the immune system’s ability to function at full capacity. Use technology to get absorbed in a more comfortable way of being and reconnect to the great potential that lies within.

Technology for immune system boosts:

Establish a schedule that includes lots of self-care:  This profound disruption to everyday life makes it vital that we re-establish a sense of continuity. Set a firm schedule that includes appointments with yourself to get exercise, go outside, meditate, and connect with people you love even if it’s only on-line. Right now taking care of yourself is taking care of others.

Connect with people:   We grow in connection with others. Reach out and let others know you’re thinking of them, they are important and you are grateful for their presence in your life. This is no time to regret things left unspoken.

Laughter:  A good laugh will increase oxygen to the heart, lungs, and muscles, release endorphins in the brain to improve mood and decrease stress and elevate the immune system. That is good medicine!  Contact a fun friend or watch a movie that makes you laugh.

Stories of triumph over adversity:  Whether through movies, books, or chats, seek out stories where we overcome hard times. Can we get enough of these right now?

Music:  Music is medicine – use it. There’s something especially touching about some of the videos musicians are putting online right now. Stripped of flashy makeup and distracting backups they feel vulnerable and powerful at the same time.

Engage the healing power of creativity:   The creative process can tap into incredible inner strength and art doesn’t have to be perfect, beautiful, or significant to be powerful. One family has a nightly photography contest where the person with the most creative picture on a chosen subject gets bragging rights for a full 24 hours. That’s a great way to ease feelings of isolation!

Heart Rate Variability BioFeedback:  A simple and effective way to interrupt the stress response and shift your heart, mind, and emotions into healthy coherence, you can use Inner Balance technology to replenish your energy, balance your emotions, and increase resilience. Buy the Inner Balance device here at The Kaplan Center or go to HeartMath.com for this fun and efficient bio-hack to your meditation practice.

Gratitude journal:  Relishing good experiences can improve health, outlook, and relationships. A definite boost to the immune system!

Expressive writing:  A form of therapy that can be good for your sleep, your state of mind, and your emotional well-being, all of which bolster your immune system and improve your health. Click here for instructions on this powerful technique.

Benefit finding:  Finding the silver lining in a dark cloud can be a potent boost to the immune system. Then taking the time to write these thoughts is like doubling down on a good bet.

Random acts of kindness:  Nothing makes us happier than to know we’ve touched someone’s life in a positive way. There are many lonely people out there. Reach out and do something kind. It will boost your health and make them feel better.

Pit stop reminders:  Fear, uncertainty, and helplessness can rev the nervous system like a race car so schedule regular pit stops to refuel and make mechanical adjustments so you can stay in it for the long haul. Set a timer that goes off every two hours and stop, stretch, do a minute of deep breathing, and drink water to hydrate. Small steps are giant leaps when it comes to countering fear and balancing the nervous system.

Guided Imagery and Self-Hypnosis:  Tap into the tremendous power of your own mind to relieve stress, relax your body, improve sleep, and elevate immune system functions. The health benefits are numerous and there are no risks or side effects. You can explore different imageries on-line or call for an in-person or video conference appointment at The Kaplan Center.

Or… turn off all technology

Use this opportunity to find the beauty in small things and contemplate what is really important in life. Better days are ahead.  In the meantime, be gentle with yourself, use technology wisely and find ways to control what you can in order to ease the feelings of helplessness and reconnect with the potential that exists within you.

We are here for you at The Kaplan Center. Call to schedule an appointment in person or on-line with the doctors and therapists that can help you get through this change with as much health and resilience as possible. We very much look forward to seeing you.